This was a really busy week dear my attic abusive, and future promises even worse. I could not sleep last night, creaking open the window on the world, I slumped in the chair listening to the song silent night. A breath of air caressing my tired ankles, giving peace of mind to my pain and my mind. I wondered what made me impatient your presence in the attic, what brought me into the desideriodi kicking ass, and look blissful sleep I realized that what makes me stupid is the trial. My stupid judge without knowing a shit, my delusions of omnipotence and absolute truth of my dick, those that bring you to an absolute solitude. Suffocated by the heat and the sense of guilt, I turned to one of you still awake, his response:
... My friend, the first thing: there are two types of love: The love-
need "love -gift. " The distinction is significant and must be understood. The 'love-need "or' love-failure" depends on the other hand, love is immature. You use the other, use it as a means: exploit, manipulate, dominate.
In this way the other is made under the thumb, is virtually destroyed, but the other does the same thing: try to manipulate, to dominate, to possess, use you. Using another human being has nothing to do with love, but love seems to be a smash. Yet this is what happens to the ninety-nine percent of people because you learn the first lesson of love in your childhood ... millions of people remain children for life, never grow up. Age, but in their minds never grow up, their psychology is childish, immature. They always need love. I'm always hungry for love, you crave like food. The mature man when he begins to love rather than need to share begins to boil over, begins to give. The difference is fundamental. In the first case what is important is to have more in the second, the important thing is how to give more and unconditionally. This means growth, is the beginning of maturity. A mature person gives. Only a mature person can make, because only a mature person can have. In this case, love is not dependent, and you can love the other person is there or not. In this case, love is not a report, is a state of being.
Well this is the paradox: those who fall in love do not love, that's why they fall in love. And since they did not love, can not give it. And one more thing: an immature person always falls in love with another immature person, because they speak the same language. A mature person loves a person ages. An immature person like an immature person. You may continue to change their husband or wife a thousand times, you will find again the same kind of person the same misery and repeated in different forms, but repeated the same misery is pretty much the same thing. The basic problem is that first love must become mature, then there is a mature partner: you will attract people not immature at all. Immature people falling in love destroy each other's freedom, create a bond, a jail. The mature people in love will help you to be free, help each other to destroy any type of bond. And when love flows in freedom there is beauty. When love flows into addiction is ugliness. Remember, freedom is a higher love. So if you love destroys freedom, has no value. Love can be dropped, freedom must be saved: it is a higher value. And without freedom you can never be happy, is not possible. Freedom is the inherent desire of every man, each woman: total freedom, absolute.
Now I go back to sleep, you love as well fuck you want, it's not my problem. A Storyteller
soon.
0 comments:
Post a Comment